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  • August 8, 2011 at 2:24 am #1532
    Amanda Devine
    Keymaster

    [quote=”[email protected]” post=985]We have to feel the love for them. Nothing has to happen cause its our illusion. We just have to think/feel love in order for the change to happen…[/quote]

    Something needs to happen in order for the people to change the negative subject to positive one. What? :silly:

    August 8, 2011 at 6:58 am #1552
    Laurie Thiboutot
    Participant

    they need to feel the love coming from us?

    August 8, 2011 at 9:23 am #1559
    Lynn Thompson
    Participant

    We also need patients. :whistle: People who are stuck need more love and tools. When I deal with these people I give them Amanda’s card. One lady keeps it by her phone. Whenever she gets negative I ask her if she has called. The answer is ” no but it is buy the phone”. I let go and send love.

    August 8, 2011 at 12:06 pm #1567
    Christine Schumann
    Participant

    [quote=”[email protected]” post=934]So you do this as they are talking or complaining to you? I’ve been practicing this to no avail! As they are complaining, I say in my head, I love you, I’m sending you love, or you are loved….they don’t stop complaining….What am I doing wrong?[/quote]

    Let’s say someone is complaining about a bad economy…. yes, you send love, but you also affirm in your mind that we have a good economy filled with endless possibilities. By doing that you are changing your reality. :woohoo:

    August 8, 2011 at 12:54 pm #1568
    Christine Schumann
    Participant

    [quote=”amanda” post=949][quote=”[email protected]” post=934]So you do this as they are talking or complaining to you? I’ve been practicing this to no avail! As they are complaining, I say in my head, I love you, I’m sending you love, or you are loved….they don’t stop complaining….What am I doing wrong?[/quote]

    Great question! :cheer:

    The key is to feel that love. Repeating is not going to do it by itself. But this is how you start. I have started the same way. I repeated that I love them. Then, with time I felt that love. This is what I do now. I feel love and in my mind I say, “We are changing a subject to a good one.” When I feel that love, really feel it, it works. They change the subject by themselves. How great is that! :woohoo:

    Don’t think about what they talk about, feel love instead. 😉

    What does need to happen in order for them to change the subject in the way I have discribed above? :huh:[/quote]

    So, there is no need to turn the negative subject into a positive one? Didn’t we create it, though? “blink”

    August 8, 2011 at 1:01 pm #1569
    Christine Schumann
    Participant

    [quote=”amanda” post=948][quote=”[email protected]” post=932]I learned a way to replace negative thoughts by positive ,but I cannot bring it here because you Amanda say not to mention negative thoughts otherwiwse they will be stronger ,so how to replace without thinking of what we want to replace?[/quote]

    That is a very brilliant question! :woohoo:

    How do we replace negative thoughts without mentioning those thoughts? :huh:[/quote]

    I bet it is somple… I’ll have to think about it! B)

    August 8, 2011 at 1:34 pm #1574
    Christine Schumann
    Participant

    [quote=”[email protected]” post=1017]We also need patients. :whistle: People who are stuck need more love and tools. When I deal with these people I give them Amanda’s card. One lady keeps it by her phone. Whenever she gets negative I ask her if she has called. The answer is ” no but it is buy the phone”. I let go and send love.[/quote]

    Absolutely, I think patience is very important. We just step back and let it happen – just like when we create the miricles in our lives. We just let them happen – we don’t force them. B)

    August 10, 2011 at 11:23 am #1618
    Amanda Devine
    Keymaster

    [quote=”[email protected]” post=1010]they need to feel the love coming from us?[/quote]

    Yes. But let’s look at what you said in from a different perspective. We need to feel love for them. And I mean not just say it. Feel it!!! Saying is important as it gets us to the feeling. This is how I started with my thinking that became my feeling. :cheer:

    August 10, 2011 at 11:25 am #1619
    Amanda Devine
    Keymaster

    [quote=”[email protected]” post=1017]We also need patients. :whistle: People who are stuck need more love and tools. When I deal with these people I give them Amanda’s card. One lady keeps it by her phone. Whenever she gets negative I ask her if she has called. The answer is ” no but it is buy the phone”. I let go and send love.[/quote]

    When we are patient things happen faster. :cheer:

    August 10, 2011 at 11:26 am #1620
    Amanda Devine
    Keymaster

    [quote=”[email protected]” post=1025][quote=”[email protected]” post=934]So you do this as they are talking or complaining to you? I’ve been practicing this to no avail! As they are complaining, I say in my head, I love you, I’m sending you love, or you are loved….they don’t stop complaining….What am I doing wrong?[/quote]

    Let’s say someone is complaining about a bad economy…. yes, you send love, but you also affirm in your mind that we have a good economy filled with endless possibilities. By doing that you are changing your reality. :woohoo:[/quote]

    I love that comment! :woohoo:

    But why they are complaining about economy? :huh:

    August 10, 2011 at 11:34 am #1621
    Amanda Devine
    Keymaster

    [quote=”[email protected]” post=1026][quote=”amanda” post=949][quote=”[email protected]” post=934]So you do this as they are talking or complaining to you? I’ve been practicing this to no avail! As they are complaining, I say in my head, I love you, I’m sending you love, or you are loved….they don’t stop complaining….What am I doing wrong?[/quote]

    Great question! :cheer:

    The key is to feel that love. Repeating is not going to do it by itself. But this is how you start. I have started the same way. I repeated that I love them. Then, with time I felt that love. This is what I do now. I feel love and in my mind I say, “We are changing a subject to a good one.” When I feel that love, really feel it, it works. They change the subject by themselves. How great is that! :woohoo:

    Don’t think about what they talk about, feel love instead. 😉

    What does need to happen in order for them to change the subject in the way I have discribed above? :huh:[/quote]

    So, there is no need to turn the negative subject into a positive one? Didn’t we create it, though? “blink”[/quote]

    Of course we created it!!! 😆 People are mirror image of our thinking. When we are in a situation that people talk negative, the best thing is to change a subject, but when we start our journey of a new way of thinking, we might find that we are not so skillful to do that. In this case, we need to feel love for them, if we can’t leave the conversation or the room. We need to feel love for anyone anywhere anyway. 😆

    August 10, 2011 at 11:35 am #1622
    Amanda Devine
    Keymaster

    [quote=”[email protected]” post=1027][quote=”amanda” post=948][quote=”[email protected]” post=932]I learned a way to replace negative thoughts by positive ,but I cannot bring it here because you Amanda say not to mention negative thoughts otherwiwse they will be stronger ,so how to replace without thinking of what we want to replace?[/quote]

    That is a very brilliant question! :woohoo:

    How do we replace negative thoughts without mentioning those thoughts? :huh:[/quote]

    I bet it is somple… I’ll have to think about it! B)[/quote]

    Yes, it is simple. You are right! :woohoo:

    So, how we do that?

    August 10, 2011 at 12:48 pm #1630
    Christine Schumann
    Participant

    [quote=”amanda” post=1078][quote=”[email protected]” post=1025][quote=”[email protected]” post=934]So you do this as they are talking or complaining to you? I’ve been practicing this to no avail! As they are complaining, I say in my head, I love you, I’m sending you love, or you are loved….they don’t stop complaining….What am I doing wrong?[/quote]

    Let’s say someone is complaining about a bad economy…. yes, you send love, but you also affirm in your mind that we have a good economy filled with endless possibilities. By doing that you are changing your reality. :woohoo:[/quote]

    I love that comment! :woohoo:

    But why they are complaining about economy? :huh:[/quote]

    Because we created it?

    August 11, 2011 at 11:58 pm #1663
    Amanda Devine
    Keymaster

    [quote=”[email protected]” post=1088][quote=”amanda” post=1078][quote=”[email protected]” post=1025][quote=”[email protected]” post=934]So you do this as they are talking or complaining to you? I’ve been practicing this to no avail! As they are complaining, I say in my head, I love you, I’m sending you love, or you are loved….they don’t stop complaining….What am I doing wrong?[/quote]

    Let’s say someone is complaining about a bad economy…. yes, you send love, but you also affirm in your mind that we have a good economy filled with endless possibilities. By doing that you are changing your reality. :woohoo:[/quote]

    I love that comment! :woohoo:

    But why they are complaining about economy? :huh:[/quote]

    Because we created it?[/quote]

    Yes!!! You are brilliant! :woohoo:

    So, what can we do to change it? :huh:

    August 12, 2011 at 12:44 pm #1669
    Laurie Thiboutot
    Participant

    create a new economy with our thoughts!

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