I had many people asking me: How do I get out from the situation that I am in?
We can change the place we live in, we can change our partner and the job, etc. Sometimes that kind of a change might be needed. But there is one thing that we always take with us wherever we go and that is ourselves. If we want to change our job in order to have a different boss, we might find that in a new job, but after being there for a while, we have another boss that treats us the same way. I have people changing jobs, places, partners only to experience the same thing some time later. The same pattern repeats itself. Why? Because, our thinking/feeling stays the same and creates the same situation over again.
To give you an explanation how this work and how to change the situation into a desired one, we will use the example of a boss.
We create everything in our lives by the way we feel. Only when we feel good we will create a perfect boss. Change the existing one or create a new one. If we want to be recognized and appreciated at work we need to do two things. First, we need to feel love for ourselves. When we feel love for ourselves and see how amazing we are, we have respect and appreciation for ourselves, we will create others, including our boss, valuing us. If we want others to see how special we are, we need to see those qualities in ourselves first. Second, we need to feel love for our boss. How do you do that? Simple. Say in your mind, I love you (put your boss’ name here). Sometimes we might need extra guidance to create that feeling, simply because of the experience that we had with that boss. You might start with something little like thinking about what is it you like about your boss or the place that you work. Even the smallest thing. You have a job. You get paid. That is a great start. This way you go to the work place with gratitude. That feeling makes us feel good. As we feel good we create more things that we like about our work. The more things we create, the better we feel. As we create everything by the way we feel, suddenly we find out that our boss is getting nicer. Before we know it, we are appreciated, praised, respected, etc.
The same principle applies to every area of our lives. We can create every situation in every way we want. All we need to do is to change how we feel about the things that we have in order to create them in a different way. When we do that, we realize that the way out of any situation is to change how we feel about it. When we feel good, when we feel love and gratitude, and have fun…magic appears in our lives.
Have an absolutely magical week, full of LOVE GRATITUDE and FUN!!!
Amanda Devine