When we look at any situation in our lives there is a huge question that we need to ask ourselves. Asking that question is the difference between what we have now and what we want to have. That huge question is extremely simple. When we look at any situation, it is extremely important for us to ask ourselves: What is it that I want it to be?
Let me explain why this question is so vital.
First, we need to realize how powerful we are. Whatever you think in your wildest dreams that your power is, you are barely scratching the surface of your true potential. You can create whatever you want and far beyond that. Then, we need to understand how things work. We need to understand that we create everything in our lives. And I mean EVERYTHING! We create by the way we feel. Thoughts are just intentions and directions in which we want to go. Feelings create everything in every aspect of our lives. When we feel good, we create what we want. So, for us in order to create what we desire we need to feel good.
As I have explained that part, let’s move to the huge question.
When we see a situation that is in front of us and we concentrate on it we create more of it. If it is a good situation, focusing on what you have is great. If we wish that situation were different and being fixated on it will simply create more of the same. We need to move on. In other words we need to change how we feel. When we ask ourselves the extremely important question: What is it that I want it to be? We instantly move our focus from what it is in front of us to the desired outcome. That shift of our attention makes the whole difference. We automatically become calmer and we feel better. As we focus on the perfect outcome we continue to feel good and as a result we are going to create what we desire.
Let me give you an example.
One of my clients, a new car salesperson, had a couple come to the dealership where he worked, enquiring about cars. They wanted to buy two cars, one for him and one for her. They looked at two cars, a blue one and a white one. They told him that they had just come from another dealership where they were looking at cars. After a while, the people decided to go back to the other dealership to buy their cars there. As soon as they left, my client went back to the blue and the white cars that the people had looked at. He said to the cars: I love you, I have this wonderful couple coming back from the other dealership and buying you. The same day, those people came back and they bought both the white and the blue cars.
Why has that worked for my client? Because, he focused his mind on what he wanted to be. He asked himself that very important question: What is it that I want it to be? As he concentrated on the perfect outcome, he felt good and he created what he wanted.
Whatever your situation is, whether you want to change it, or take it to a next level, you need to focus on the perfect outcome. As soon as a situation occurs, ask yourself the huge question: What is it that I want it to be? That will instantly change your focus into the desired direction and we create what we focus our feelings on.
Have an absolutely magical week, full of LOVE, GRATITUDE and FUN!!!