Yes, recognize the patterns of destructive thinking is the key and implementing thoughts that feel good. To keep trying and allow ourselves the slack to learning this and know we are being led to the right situations, people, and answers to assist us in “our” journey.
The words of a song;
“You can’t always have what you want”
should be sung and believed;
“You [color=#8800ff]CAN [/color]always have what you want”.
We just need to remember this is Truth.