Re: You are welcome to post your thoughts here.

August 8, 2011 at 12:54 pm #1568
Christine Schumann
Participant

[quote=”amanda” post=949][quote=”[email protected]” post=934]So you do this as they are talking or complaining to you? I’ve been practicing this to no avail! As they are complaining, I say in my head, I love you, I’m sending you love, or you are loved….they don’t stop complaining….What am I doing wrong?[/quote]

Great question! :cheer:

The key is to feel that love. Repeating is not going to do it by itself. But this is how you start. I have started the same way. I repeated that I love them. Then, with time I felt that love. This is what I do now. I feel love and in my mind I say, “We are changing a subject to a good one.” When I feel that love, really feel it, it works. They change the subject by themselves. How great is that! :woohoo:

Don’t think about what they talk about, feel love instead. 😉

What does need to happen in order for them to change the subject in the way I have discribed above? :huh:[/quote]

So, there is no need to turn the negative subject into a positive one? Didn’t we create it, though? “blink”