Your partner tells you something that you are not agreeing with or make a comment that you don’t like. That makes you feel angry or upset. What do you do?
You can tell your partner that he is wrong or point out that he/she should not say things like that and very likely the situation is going to accelerate and proceed in the direction that you don’t want. By the law of creation/attraction you are just creating more of those undesired situations in your relationship and your life. Remember, we create what it is that we feel.
You can choose the other scenario. You can look at your partner, and say only one thing, “I love you”. No comments, no telling who is wrong and who is right. Just a simple, “I love you”. The important point here is that we need to feel love at that moment. So, after you say it out loud or in your mind, if for whatever reason you feel like you can’t speak it out, and the person’s behavior has not changed, it is only because you don’t feel it yet. Repeat it again and again until you feel it. You will be amazed at what is going to happen. It always works!!! Besides, when you feel love, you become calm and at that moment you are creating the desired things. In other words you are not recreating that situation.
How can we prevent situations like that from happening? :huh:[/quote]
Prevent situations like what?? I’m not sure which part of the scenarios you are talking about here…[/quote]
Prevent our partner or anyone else from saying something that we might not like.[/quote]
OHHHHH!! I think Lee has it! When we love ourselves it creates loving people around us![/quote]
I will tell you that YOU are getting it! :woohoo: