You are very right. Saying positive things is not enough. We need to change our conditioning. How do we start changing our condioning is by talking to ourselves in the mirror. By repeating over and over how amazing we are. The same way our conditioning, our beliefs were created, by constant repeating of negative things.
We also need to remember that we create with every single thought/feeling, so if we feel that it is a struggle, we create it to be a struggle. :ohmy:
How do we change that belief? How do we change the belief of something being hard? 😉