Hi — This is Vickie’s husband Phil. I will be posting as PlatinumPhil2011 once I resolve some PayPal issues. But I felt a real need to post on an issue that has caused distress in so many lives — including my own.
The concept of forgiving and forgetting implies that someone has somehow damaged me.
Damaged self esteem and feelings of being misunderstood or unappreciated are part of the LIE that is our conditioning. In Truth, we each control what happens in our lives based on our thoughts and actions prior to that.
So, there is no NEED to forgive others or to forget how we reacted to what they did.
If pain or negativity exists, it was OUR thoughts or actions that caused it.
We were each created as Absolutely Perfect, and we each have the Absolute Power to Transform our own lives. Individually and Together — we are creating upward spirals of Love, Light, Joy, Understanding, and Peace. It’s what we do.