Hello everyone. I’ve just joined the TUI Network and am enjoying reading the discussions. I think that forgiveness and forgetting is needed as long as the pain of being hurt remains. And my guess is that moving out of the pain involves falling in love with yourself, or rather totally believing the truth of who you REALLY are (as Amanda describes it). With our present based in [i]that[/i] reality, we won’t feel the need to forgive or forget.