Yes, you are right..it does seem to be a “to do” list and when I don;t do them all I feel not so good about myself! And to add another one just seems like more work and more not good feelings when I don;t do it!;( And I do look at it as I need to do all this to achieve loving myself…I wish it was that easy to “just love myself” That is what I KNOW will change my life because I lived it 3 times in my life! That was the BEST times of my life when I was loving myself! I have never felt that before in my life and it was just like living in heaven right here on earth!!! It was like something came over me to get my ego out of the way and let me truly LIVE!!!!! I felt so much love for myself I would even hug myself!! It was a result of a 3 day empowerment seminar that had us go into every aspect of our lives and dig deep! It was only temporary tho…it all went away!!! ;( I would do ANYTHING to get it back!!!