You have the power to create your amazing relationships, whether we are talking about your partner, a boss, a family member or friends. Whatever kind of a relationship you can think about you can create it the way you would like it to be. When my clients tell me that they would like to change a relationship I always tell them that this is the easiest thing to achieve.
If you want to change a relationship that you already have into something spectacular you need to change how you think and feel about that person. Everything starts with you as you are creating everything in your life. If you want to change a person you need to see in your mind what you would like this person to be. In other words, you need to see this person behaving in a desired way before you can create that behavior. You need to feel lots of love for that person. We create everything by the way we feel, so when we feel love we create what we desire. Sometimes we might be in a situation that it is easier for us to feel love for ourselves before we can feel love for that particular person. If this is the case, we need to feel lots of love for ourselves first. As we do that we are going to find out that it will become easier and easier to feel love for the other person. When we start feeling love for that person we are creating him/her in a different way and we can see our relationship improving. The more love we feel the faster we are going to create the desired outcome. My clients tell me how amazed they are seeing their mothers in law, children and partners, employees etc., changing in a short period of time.
The question is: How quickly can you change a person?
The answer: How quickly can you feel love for that person? And how quickly can you expect them to do and say things the way you want?
Remember: We always create what we expect.
Have an absolutely magical week, full of LOVE, GRATITUDE and FUN!!!
Amanda Devine